Summer can be a challenging time for divorced parents. With kids out of school, the regular routine shifts, and this change can bring about new hurdles, particularly when it comes to visitation and custody arrangements.
What common challenges do co-parents face during the summer, and what can they do to ensure that both they and their child have a smooth and enjoyable vacation?
Summer can make communication challenges more frustrating
Miscommunication or lack of communication between parents can lead to confusion and conflict regarding schedules. This can be especially challenging during summer vacation.
Establish a clear, open line of communication early on. Consider using shared calendars or apps designed for co-parenting to keep track of schedules and commitments. You may also want to set ground rules about details like which activities you will allow.
Summer interrupts a family’s regular routines
Children thrive on routine, and the lack of a structured school day can lead to instability and stress.
Create a summer schedule that includes regular activities and stick to it as much as possible. Coordinate with your co-parent to ensure consistency in rules and expectations across both households. If you struggle to create a schedule that works for both of you, you may want to discuss modifying your parenting plan with an attorney to address these details.
Summer vacation is often a time for travel
Travel with children often interrupts regular schedules or takes families out of state. Planning vacations can become especially contentious if both parents wish to travel with the children during the same time.
Parents should discuss vacation plans well in advance and follow any guidelines outlined in their parenting plan. Try to be flexible and considerate of each other’s schedules and desires. Draft a vacation plan that allows both parents to enjoy quality time with the children.
You can balance family fun and your custody arrangement
With careful planning and a cooperative approach, parents can create a positive and memorable summer experience for their children. By focusing on effective communication and prioritizing the well-being of the kids, both parents can enjoy the season.